a friend told me a story. the wife reminisced about his previous infidelity in a recent argument. stunned he was when he shouldn't. he was caught red-handed whilst enjoying the company of a young, attractive lady almost ten years ago. no problems with the marriage, it was their fifth year and the second child was months old, if i'm not mistaken. i couldn't understand why but he said, "you would never understand women".
since i wasn't in the capacity to comment from the perspective of a married man, i said, "do you know that women can always forgive, but they don't always forget?". i know it's true. i've had my share on this.
still, quoting from the book of tim allen. the guy explained the complexities of a relationship but provide no solutions. he said, men don't like to share their problems. they like to keep it to themselves and resolve it on their own. it's just their nature. they're born with it.
women, on the other hand would always expect their partner to be a good listener. so whenever a woman is having a problem, they can't wait to share it with the other half.
but forget not that men couldn't be bothered to ask, let alone being a good listener. to men (generally), it is all trivial. then the argument sets in. because women thought that we are being selfish (yes we are, at times). or men are insensitive (hmm..). worst, we are having an affair.
funny thing. right.
since i wasn't in the capacity to comment from the perspective of a married man, i said, "do you know that women can always forgive, but they don't always forget?". i know it's true. i've had my share on this.
still, quoting from the book of tim allen. the guy explained the complexities of a relationship but provide no solutions. he said, men don't like to share their problems. they like to keep it to themselves and resolve it on their own. it's just their nature. they're born with it.
women, on the other hand would always expect their partner to be a good listener. so whenever a woman is having a problem, they can't wait to share it with the other half.
but forget not that men couldn't be bothered to ask, let alone being a good listener. to men (generally), it is all trivial. then the argument sets in. because women thought that we are being selfish (yes we are, at times). or men are insensitive (hmm..). worst, we are having an affair.
funny thing. right.
6 comments:
try getting married, my friend.
em good article anyway..
but i agree with the quote 'women is always forgive, but they don't always forget'..
that's why God create men n women to live together,to know each other very well...
its not trying to get married but get married!!... once getting married, u have to take care ur marriage very well...
p/s: ader midnite sale untuk CNY nnt..tapi bukan aku handle...not sure which shopping complex will be involved...
wifey bringing up an old issue, my oh my...
your share of it, no further comments.
p/s : try geting laid, seems like burung da berkicau...
demented>>>yo my bruddah, how's every man? in two years time, two years.
ET>>>love is in the air.
bastardunited>>>exactly my point bro.
mr anon>>>what's up dude?
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